What would you say to Tom after the news has been broken to him about his wife. Which of the below is the most approriate response?

2.This is such a shock for you would you like me to phone your daughter or stay with you while you phone her?

Because Tom needs the support of other family members and he would probably really appreciate that we have offered to stay with him, because as humans we need that interaction and support from others when we are going through the toughest times of our lives.